Relationship: Six 'Golden Rules' for a Happy Partnership

A relationship requires work, but certain steps can lead to happiness. Couples should demystify beliefs about what a relationship or marriage should be, understanding that love doesn't automatically solve all problems and that one partner's happiness isn't solely the other's responsibility.

Here are six 'golden rules' for a happy relationship:

1. Limit high expectations: No relationship is perfect. Accept your partner as they are, without compromising your personal values.
2. Eliminate the need to always be right: Stop trying to control the other person and accept your differences.
3. Acknowledge your share of responsibility: Admit your mistakes and take responsibility for your part in the relationship.
4. Monitor 'blind spots': Recognize situations that cause you to overreact and show understanding.
5. Pursue 'assertive communication': Use non-critical statements to respond instead of react.
6. Maintain friends and personal interests: Explore hobbies and interests outside the relationship.

Source: Vita